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How to Avoid the Most Common Mistakes Men Make with Online Dating
If you're not having much success with online dating and you're a man, you're probably making the same mistakes over and over again. Here's how to avoid them and better your chances of finding a partner online!
Steps
Remember that when creating your profile, less is more. You want to stand out and be memorable without revealing too much. Keep your essays short, punchy, playful, and positive. Reveal enough personal detail to create a quick connection but not so much that you remove the mystery.
Upload 2-5 flattering, but accurate pictures. Resist the temptation to include out of date photos when you had 30% more hair and 20% fewer pounds.
Keep it real. Some readers will check your profile for accuracy at on online dating review site. And every other member will just avoid a second date if you weren't the man your profile presented you as.
As soon as possible, meet for coffee and a chat to see if you like each other. Forget about emailing for months and getting all worked up over email. The longer you leave it before you meet, the less likely it is to happen. Ask for a coffee date in the first two weeks of emails. This will save you a lot of time and energy and disappointments. If the other person doesn’t agree to meet, move on and don’t worry about it. There are plenty more.
Choose the time and place if you're making the invite. People tend to respect decisive partners. So decide/suggest the cafe, time and date. If the person can’t make it when you suggest, reschedule within reason. The person will get the impression that you are not timid and are comfortable making decisions. This is good, although being pushy, demanding, or adamant is not the image you want to convey, either; find that comfortable median.
Set your expectations low before the first date. By keeping your cool, you will stay on your game during the date, not complicate things with "high" expectations, and thereby avoid disappointment.
Be relaxed at the coffee date. Don’t mention past partners or that you haven’t been dating for a long time. Just have some fun and be happy.
Tips
Avoiding common mistakes will save you a lot of time, money, energy and focus with online dating. This will prevent you from quitting before you get the results you desire and deserve.
Online dating works for some and just doesn't work for others. There are other methods available for finding a mate.
Make the first date during a week night. This will suggest you have a life and are busy on the weekend.
Treat online dating in a similar manner as you would online shopping for anything. Often there is more than one product available. Don't be afraid to shop around. Many of them have a stable full of men with whom they are chatting.
If you are talking to several people at the same time, keep file folders for each person. Be sure to record details, for instance take notes of any favorite foods, or favorite colors to incorporate them later.
Be realistic about who you contact and expect that you will receive a small percentage of replies. Remember, for every woman on the site, there are 5 males.
Warnings
Pay careful consideration to the complications of browsing in interstate and overseas profiles. It’s tempting to go get in touch with someone who lives far away, but it might also be a complete waste of your time, energy and focus. If you are not ready or willing to start a long-distance relationship (which, if successful, may eventually require one of you to relocate), then only focus on and contact people in your immediate area.
There's a fine line between being decisive and pushy. Don't pressure anyone to do anything the person doesn't feel comfortable doing. There's no better way to ruin your chances.
Women aren't the only ones who need to be careful when dating online. Men should keep their eyes out for dangerous people as well.
Don't tie your emotional well-being to a keyboard and monitor. Be busy. One thing that makes a man desirable is what he does with his time. Are you a couch potato that spends hours at the keyboard, or do you lead a stimulating, interesting, active and healthy life?
